A Two-Day Couples Intensive

Stop having the same conversations about the same problems—and finally get somewhere.

You've built a life together. Careers. Responsibilities. A family. A future.

You know how to make difficult decisions and solve complicated problems.

But when the problem is between the two of you, everything seems to change.

You have the same conversations. Make the same promises. Try to explain yourselves differently.

And somehow, you end up right back where you started.

One of you feels unheard. The other feels like nothing they do is enough.

You both want things to get better.

But you're exhausted from trying to figure out how.

What if you could stop talking about changing your marriage—and experience yourselves doing it differently?

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Two Days to Work on What Keeps Coming Between You.

You don't need another conversation about how you should communicate.

You've probably had plenty of those.

You need to experience what happens when you approach each other differently.

The Us Couple is a private, 11-hour virtual couples intensive conducted over two days.

It's dedicated time for the two of you to work directly on the patterns, hurts, and unresolved problems that keep getting in the way of your relationship.

This isn't a group program.

It isn't a generic curriculum.

And it isn't eleven hours of simply talking about what's wrong.

We'll work with the actual interactions between you.

You'll practice repairing hurt.

You'll work through difficult conversations.

You'll learn how to recognize when you're turning against each other—and practice finding your way back.

Because understanding what needs to change is one thing. Experiencing yourselves doing it differently is another.

REPAIR. RESOLVE. MOVE FORWARD.

REPAIR — Stop Carrying the Hurt Into Every New Argument.

Sometimes the problem isn't just what you're disagreeing about.

It's what happens to each of you during the disagreement.

The defensiveness.

The withdrawal.

The words you wish you could take back.

The feeling that your spouse doesn't understand how deeply something hurt.

And even after you've apologized, the hurt can linger.

During our time together, we'll work directly with those moments.

Not just by discussing what happened, but by practicing repair while you're together.

You'll learn how to respond to your spouse in a way they can actually receive.

So yesterday's argument doesn't have to become the foundation for tomorrow's.

RESOLVE — Finally Get Somewhere With the Problems That Keep You Stuck.

You know the conversations.

The ones you've had so many times you can practically predict what your spouse will say before they say it.

Money.

Parenting.

Family responsibilities.

Time together.

Unmet expectations.

You start out wanting to solve something.

But somewhere along the way, the conversation becomes about defending yourselves instead.

And the original problem is still waiting for you.

During the intensive, we'll work directly on the issues that keep resurfacing.

You'll practice expressing what matters to you, understanding what matters to your spouse, and working toward solutions that protect both of you and your marriage.

Because resolving a problem shouldn't require one of you to win and the other to disappear.

MOVE FORWARD — Become Partners Who Know How to Show Up for Each Other.

The goal isn't to have two wonderful days together and then return to the same marriage.

It's to begin changing what happens when real life gets difficult again.

When you're tired.

When you disagree.

When one of you feels hurt.

When life demands more from both of you than you feel prepared to give.

You'll practice recognizing your patterns, interrupting them, repairing mistakes, and turning toward each other.

Not because you'll never struggle again.

But because you can become more capable of handling those struggles together.

You don't have to be perfect partners. You need to know how to take care of each other.

Imagine 48 Hours From Now.

Imagine bringing up something that's been bothering you.

Your spouse doesn't immediately become defensive.

You don't have to explain yourself six different ways.

You feel heard.

Imagine your spouse telling you something difficult.

Instead of preparing your response, you recognize what they're trying to tell you.

You reach for each other instead of pulling away.

Imagine having a disagreement and realizing something remarkable:

You had a hard conversation. And then you went to dinner.

The rest of your evening wasn't ruined.

You didn't spend the night replaying the argument.

You were able to enjoy each other.

Now imagine next week.

Life is busy again.

Something frustrating happens.

You feel yourselves beginning that familiar pattern.

But this time, one of you recognizes it.

You slow down.

You turn toward each other.

And instead of repeating the same argument, you try something different.

That's the kind of change we're working toward.

Not a marriage without problems.

A marriage where problems don't have to cost you your connection.

Why a Two-Day Intensive?

Because sometimes the most difficult part of couples therapy is having to stop just when you're beginning to get somewhere.

You start exploring an important issue.

Something meaningful happens between you.

You begin to understand what needs to change.

And then your appointment ends.

You return to work, parenting, responsibilities, and everything else demanding your attention.

By the time you meet again, you're trying to pick up where you left off.

A private intensive offers a different experience.

We have extended, dedicated time to stay with the work.

Time to understand what's happening between you.

Time to work through difficult moments.

Time to practice repair until it becomes something your spouse can actually experience.

Time to address the problems you've been struggling to resolve.

And time to begin building confidence that you can respond differently when you're on your own.

The intensive is designed around your relationship, not a predetermined set of exercises every couple completes.

For two days, your marriage gets the focused attention that everything else in your life has been competing for.

Become The Us Couple.

You have spent years learning how to take care of your responsibilities.

Your careers.

Your family.

Your home.

Your future.

But what about taking care of each other?

A strong marriage isn't built by one person sacrificing themselves to keep the other happy.

And it isn't built by two people protecting their own interests at the expense of the relationship.

It's built by learning how to be partners.

I can take care of myself without abandoning you.

And I can take care of you without abandoning myself.

You can have different opinions and remain on the same side.

You can express your needs without making your spouse the enemy.

You can repair when you've hurt each other.

You can face difficult moments knowing that neither of you has to handle them alone.

Not you OR me. You AND me.

That's what it means to become The Us Couple.

What If We've Already Tried Couples Therapy?

Then you may already know how frustrating it is to understand your relationship problems and still struggle to change them.

The Us Couple is designed to move beyond insight alone.

Rather than only discussing what happens between you, we'll work with those interactions as they happen.

You'll practice responding differently while your spouse is right there to experience it.

The emphasis is on doing the work together—not simply leaving with another list of things you should try.

Eleven Hours Sounds Like a Lot.

It is a meaningful commitment.

And that's intentional.

You've likely spent countless hours arguing, recovering from arguments, avoiding difficult conversations, or trying to explain yourselves without getting anywhere.

This is an opportunity to devote focused time to changing those patterns.

Rather than fitting your marriage into the space left over after everything else, you're giving it your attention.

What If We See Things Completely Differently?

You don't have to agree about everything before beginning.

You don't even have to describe your marriage the same way.

You are two different people with different experiences, needs, and perspectives.

The work isn't about making one of you right.

It's about learning how to understand each other and protect your relationship while navigating those differences.

Both of you matter here.

THE US COUPLE

11 Private Hours. Two Days. One Marriage.

Your Investment: $6,000 per couple

• Private, individualized couples intensive

• 11 hours across two days

• Conducted virtually via Zoom

• Experiential work focused on repairing, resolving, and moving forward together

The Us Couple is designed for married couples who are committed to their relationship and ready to participate actively in changing the patterns that keep them stuck.

Before scheduling your intensive, we'll meet for a consultation to discuss what's happening in your marriage, what you'd like to accomplish, and whether this approach is appropriate for both of you.

At the conclusion of our work, we'll also discuss whether ongoing couples therapy or additional support would be beneficial.

You Can Keep Having the Same Marriage. Or You Can Begin Creating a Different Experience of It.

Another year of the same arguments.

Another year of feeling misunderstood.

Another year of trying to find your way back to each other.

Or the possibility of becoming partners who know how to take care of each other when things get hard.

You've already invested so much in building your life together.

Now it's time to invest in how you experience that life with each other.

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